First off, thanks for all the advice and comments. When I wrote about my awesome honor attendants here, you were all very helpful as usual! The general consensus was to avoid asking H Bomb and C Fri to order anything specific and that maybe eggplant and chocolate brown wouldn’t look so good together. Insert Miss Sword’s sad face here.
(Please note, this photo was not taken recently, but a few years ago when a very over-tired and over-emotional Miss Sword was traveling from the UK back to America.)
But I didn’t stay sad for long!! I rallied and talked to my girls and came up with a totally new plan!
And real quick, it’s worth noting that all of the men will be wearing different kilts. Instead of mismatched girls, I’ll have mismatched guys, and I guess that’s why I’m leaning so heavily towards having the bridesmaids and honor attendants be as uniform as possible.
I’ve known all along the honor attendants should be in a dark color, I just had chosen the wrong dark color. Why hadn’t it hit me before? The honor attendants should wear black!
Yes, black. At a wedding.
Here’s why: All of the groomsman will be wearing kilts with black jackets, bow-ties, and shoes. The ushers will be black suits and dress. Plus, everyone can re-wear a LBD, right? Plus, I think black, eggplant, and ivory will look wonderful together!
I remember awhile ago someone commented on a post of mine saying they were curious to see how brown and black would mix together at our wedding. Umm, SO AM I!! Haha!
I finally made a color board of our wedding colors, thanks to the guidance of Mrs. Wizard and the newly married Mrs. Wallaby. I’m pretty terrible at this sort of thing, and it took me longer to make than I’m willing to admit, so please be kind. As I look at all the colors together, I’m worried they don’t look as good as they did when they were still in my head. Does anyone else feel this way about their colors?
colors via Design Seeds/ edited by Miss Sword
Tell me, does this scream dark, dramatic, elegant, and romantic to you? Does it make you think of running through the Highlands in Scotland? Does it remind you of your favorite fairy tale? Are you turning your head wistfully right now yearning for your love?
Yea, whatever. CLEARLY, you all lack imagination. 🙂
For the sake of my sanity, let’s recap each color choice and it’s appearances at the wedding.
Black: parts of the groom and groomsmen’s attire, ushers attire, honor attendant attire, frames and signage/decor
Ivory: bride’s dress, flower girl dress, some flowers, some decor, tablecloths
Forest Green: ivy in the centerpieces, parts of the bouquets, the plants in the atrium space,
leprauchauns, some of the groomsmen’s kilts
Chocolate brown (kinda wishing I started calling this is espresso from the beginning): napkins, most of the centerpieces, the wooden castle (oops haven’t mentioned that yet!), one handfasting cord
Eggplant: bridesmaid attire, flowers, lighting, and one handfasting cord
There is one item that includes ALL of these colors, and it’s the kilt of course!
Sword family tartan/ image created at Scotweb
At the wedding, I encourage all of our guests to find a piece of the tartan fabric and stare at it closely, very closely, to see all of our wedding colors blending nicely together, because who the hell knows how the rest of the room is going to look!
(all photos personal unless otherwise noted)
I know Miss Panda shared her fears that her wedding day won’t be as magical or as put together as she hopes. Do you wonder how your wedding will look when everything’s all said and done?
What do you think of my honor attendants wearing black?
- Wedding Date:
- March 2013
- Embassy Suites Bloomington West in Bloomington, MN