Wedding timeline lists seriously make me feel ill. Yes, I know that they are created in order to give structure and organization to the wedding planning process (which I can appreciate), but whenever I deviate from the timeline I start to feel like I’m going to break out into hives!
However, I am here to tell you all that it is not impossible to make plans/schedule vendors at times that differ from the given timeline! Yes – you can do it! Case in point: our wedding cake. According to most wedding planning timelines, you should have your cake baker booked at around the 6 month mark. Oh hmm… yes… it is April now, the wedding is only a month and a half away, and we are JUST NOW booking our cake. Yeah, before you revoke my bride card, hear me out!
The first reason as to why I’m so behind: I was living in Virginia! That REALLY put the brakes on the wedding cake tasting. It is just really difficult to taste wedding cakes when you don’t live in the same state as the bakeries! Mr. Buttons and I tried out Publix cake when we were home for Thanksgiving, but we weren’t ready to sign the contract after that experience.
Well, we moved back to Florida, and for a few weeks I was on a mission to complete unfinished tasks, which included the cake! Mr. Buttons and I went to a very nice bakery in town that is known for amazing cakes. We tasted them, and we were impressed. However, when we started to talk to the baker herself, we were less than thrilled. After sifting through hundreds of cake photos, I had pulled one (yes… one) picture as my inspiration. It was everything that I wanted:
When the baker asked me about what I wanted in regards to the design, I proceeded to show her the photo. I also mentioned how I was looking for something very simple. She looked at the photo, then looked back at me and oh so bluntly said, “that design is NOT simple.” Mmmmmok… well perhaps I didn’t quite phrase it right? Yes, I realized that the work involved might be detailed, but the look of the cake itself is not what I would consider elaborate. Regardless of whether or not she understood what I was originally saying, I was put off by the encounter.
After that particular meeting, I was feeling a bit dejected and frustrated about the cake situation. So… I put it off… until last week, when I found the best cake baker EVER! But, you’ll have to wait, as that story is for another time!
How many different cake bakeries did you try out before you found the one? Did anyone turn down your ideas or vision?