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I was in a LDR for about a year with my partner. About eight months in, we got engaged. By the time we were at our 11th month together, I relocated and started a new job to be closer to him. First, I moved into his apartment, but within a month, we were in our first house purchased together. All this to say that everything has been going very fast, but it was okay because I wanted all of this and I chose to go ahead with all of this.
We have now been living together for a little over two months, and I have noticed that we have been arguing quite a bit (huge arguments about every two weeks). I feel like most of our arguments stem from insecurities. This happened a few times when we were in an LDR, but I thought it was being apart that was causing his mind to go a bit wild. In fact, that is what he told me. So now that we are living together I am a bit surprised and disappointed that it seems like it will be going on for a while.