When I think about the role of the groom-to-be, I think of two extremes.
Groom #1 is like my older brother:
Brother’s wedding day/ Personal photo
This groom is heavily involved in the planning process. He attends every vendor meeting and is actively involved with every decision. Not only does he care about the DJ, but also the color of the napkins and the type of flowers. He has researched the registry to bits and is quite vocal about his own vision.
Then there is Groom #2: