Though our wedding is absolutely “ours,” there have been a few wedding-related topics in which Mr. Tractor is less than invested. It took me a while to come to terms with this, but what I’ve figured out is this: it’s not that he doesn’t care about themes or flowers or decor, but he knows that I care a lot, and, as always, he wants me to be happy with what we decide. That said, we still make all of our wedding-related decisions together, so sometimes Mr. T finds himself weighing in on things like stamps, or envelope liners, or what particular shade of coral is the perfect balance of pink and orange. And I am very thankful to him for this.
One decision that, I swear, took absolutely no discussing, convincing, or leg pulling was our decision to take dance lessons to prep for our wedding. One day, I emailed Mr. T a link to information on lessons at a local studio, and within a few hours he emailed back, “All signed up for August!” I mean, I should’ve known. I already told you all how he’s a dancing machine, and he’s generally game for anything, but I was surprised (pleasantly!) at how enthusiastic he was about the whole thing!