One of the most common things you’ll hear while planning your wedding is how the bride is the only thing that matters on the Big Day. I was told several times, “Who cares what he thinks/wants? It’s YOUR day.”
If that’s the system you and your partner came up with, that’s amazing. I am not here to put that down, nor am I judging you. I think everyone should do what works best for them.
Mr. Sea Monkey and I, however, decided to go about things differently. We worked together. That’s right, any final decision was agreed upon by both of us. Any ideas either of us had were ran by the other person.
Why didn’t I just take charge and make it MY day?