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HELP! My husband had a house for five years before we met. I moved in a year before we got married, but he always referred to it as “his” house. Four months ago, after our wedding, we bought a newer, bigger house. Well, he couldn’t get the loan, so everything with this house is in my name and I pay all the bills because he said he is still paying for his house (which is dirt cheap).
Anyway, “his” house hasn’t even been on the market four months (winter months), and he decided to rent it out. He did not tell me, and I just found out the renters are moving in in three days. I still have belongings at this house and had no idea he was even considering renting this out. I know he doesn’t know a thing about being a landlord, and I don’t even know what kind of rental agreement he has. When I found out (which was through a friend) I confronted him. He said it’s his house and it doesn’t concern me. He said he doesn’t want to pay for something he doesn’t live in. I asked to please give me a year to try and sell it and he went ahead and did this.
Am I wrong for being upset? He is calling me crazy and said it’s his and shouldn’t concern me and now he will be able to help with our new house bills. Can someone please give me some advice?