Proposing to the love of your life is a pretty big deal. It’s the kind of moment that you’re sure to remember the rest of your life—and because of that, most people really want it to go perfectly. While the specifics of the proposal vary, there’s one thing nearly everyone hopes for when they pop the question: they want their sweetheart to be surprised.
If you don’t want your partner to know a proposal is coming, you absolutely have to make sure they don’t see the ring before the big day. But if they’re always hanging out at your place (or worse—you two live together), keeping that ring under wraps can seem impossible! Here are a few tips to help you hide an engagement ring until you’re ready to get down on one knee.
Where to Hide the Ring After You Buy It
Use Your Off-Season Wardrobe
One of the most common hiding places for an engagement ring is in a man’s sock or underwear drawer. But if you’ve ever seen a rom-com, you know how easy it is to find a ring in that spot! If you want to hide the ring in your clothes, there are definitely better places to choose from.
Instead of your sock drawer (which you open every day and might accidentally leave open for anyone to peek inside), slip the ring into the clothing you’re not using at the moment. If it’s summer, put it in the pocket of your winter coat. If it’s the dead of winter, bury the ring among your beach gear. This ensures that no one will be looking in that part of the closet for a while, and your ring will be safe.
Put the Ring on a High Shelf
The logic here is simple: if your fiancée-to-be can’t reach the hiding spot, there’s no way she’ll find the ring! A high shelf in the linen closet or the kitchen pantry is usually a safe place, especially if you push the box back far enough that it’s out of sight.
However, high places aren’t the ONLY good hiding places in your home. Also consider places your partner doesn’t usually look, like the tool box (assuming your sweetheart’s not the handy type) or the box of holiday decorations (assuming Christmas isn’t right around the corner). These spots will keep your ring securely hidden in plain sight.
Hide the Engagement Ring at a Friend’s House
Let’s say that you’ve spent hours searching for the perfect hiding spot. No place seems secure enough—and to make matters worse, your fiancée-to-be is expected home any minute! Don’t panic: if your place really doesn’t seem safe, you can always ask for an accomplice.
Talk to your friends, your family, or your partner’s family. Chances are, someone will be willing to help you out and hold onto the ring for a little while. Just make sure you ask someone you can trust, and that your partner doesn’t spend too much time at their house before you propose.
Where to Hide the Ring When You Propose
Wear Loose Clothing
So, the big day is finally here. You’re going to take your sweetheart out for a romantic date and before the evening ends, you’re going to ask them if they’ll marry you. Congratulations! I have just one question: how are you gonna hide the ring all day?
The easiest way to conceal a ring box is by wearing loose clothing during your date. A loose coat with deep pockets is a great choice. You could even stuff the ring box in your sock and cover it with a loose-legged trouser. Whatever you do, make sure you feel comfortable in your outfit; if you’re constantly adjusting your clothes, your partner might notice something is up.
Bring a Prop
Another easy way to conceal the ring on your big date is to carry some sort of bag. If you’re a lady popping the question, this is easy—pop the ring in your purse and you’re good to go! For gentlemen, however, this might present a challenge.
Plan a date that would give you a reason to carry something with you. Go on a hike and carry a backpack, plan a picnic and fill up a basket, even dropping the ring into an (empty) coffee cup would suffice! As long as you have something to carry with you, you’ll have something in which to hide the ring.
Ditch the Box
You might have noticed that my last two tips were more about hiding the ring BOX than the ring. The reason for this should be obvious: the box is what takes up so much space! If you really don’t want to carry a bulky box on you, another option is to ditch that thing and just bring the ring.
Of course, carrying the ring on its own does come with some risks—namely, that a tiny ring could easily fall out of your pocket without you noticing. But if you think that you can keep tabs on the ring during your date (or if you plan to propose early in the evening), this is a simple way to hide the ring without arousing suspicion.
With these suggestions, you’ll be able to keep that engagement ring safely hidden until you’re ready to show it to the love of your life. Good luck—I’m sure they’ll be surprised!