Too friendly ex: normal or a problem?
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My fiancé was married to his college sweetheart for six years before they divorced. They mutually decided to separate after deciding that they were just very different people than they were in college and wanted different things and different lifestyles. From what he’s told me, there was no huge blow up or infidelity, they just mutually drifted apart. They’ve maintained somewhat of a close relationship; they are definitely better as friends than as a married couple. In fact, that’s what he described their relationship like when it was falling apart: They just felt like good friends or roommates that were living together in the end.
Ever since I’ve known him, she’s always been a part of his life. They still share friends in common and we see her at weddings and the occasional party. She is super active on his Facebook posts, commenting on and/or liking pretty much everything he posts that DON’T have to do with me. When we see each other, she’s cordial but I do feel a tinge of coldness toward me (while she is very warm to him).
Their relationship makes me uncomfortable.
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