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Officiant in New York, NY,
(917) 522-6632

About Us

The Vow Whisperer is a licensed officiant, wedding vow, toast, and speech coach based in New York. Owned and run by Tanya Pushkine, The Vow Whisperer helps couples craft the perfect words and coaches each person to deliver their vows flawlessly for the most important performance of a lifetime. The process is comfortable and relaxed and together, the most beautiful customized ceremony will come to life, just as you dreamed it would.

Services Offered

Tanya’s experience as a Juilliard-trained actress, as well as her background in public speaking, makes her an ideal choice as an officiant and as someone to assist with writing vows (in your own words). Tanya helps couples confidently and openly express their thoughts and feelings to their partner on their special day.

With Tanya, couples put pen to paper by extracting memories, anecdotes, the meaning of marriage, their joys and hurdles, their promises, and much more. Crafting elegant prose and heartfelt words, the script allows you to outline your sentiments in a beautiful, touching and unforgettable way.

The Vow Whisperer also coaches you with speaking, enunciating, projection, body language, and more. She can help calm your nerves and allow you to be the best possible version of yourself as you read aloud in front of your guests. Your fear of speaking in public will quickly dissipate.

As an officiant, Tanya is a personable, approachable and kind person who strives to create the most magical experience possible.

Other Services

The Vow Whisperer also provides her services for couples’ last-minute nerves by providing guidance, confidence, and support. Tanya can assist with wedding speeches and toasts, and her services can be provided face-to-face or virtually. In addition to her officiant skills, Tanya also serves as an advisor in relation to everything wedding-related. The Vow Whisperer also travels for destination weddings.

Bobby Simpson

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  • Tanya was a fantastic guide for me throughout the six weeks I developed my vows. Her questions inspired me and her feedback on my drafts enabled me to fully express my thoughts, feelings and my commitment to my wife in my own words. I was always behind schedule, but her consistent communication along the way really helped me to prioritize writing and to practice saying my vows. I get anxious about public speaking of any kind, but when the day came, I stood in front of my wife and our community and spoke with confidence. I'm incredibly grateful to Tanya for helping me to do so.

    Frequently Asked Questions about Officiant

    What is the typical price for your wedding services?

    $ 500.00

    Which of the following are included in the price?

    Ceremony Rehearsal

    What is the starting price for your wedding services?

    $ 500.00

    Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?


    What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

    Non-religious, Interfaith, Ceremony Rehearsal, Vow Renewal, Civil Union, Single Religion

    What religious affiliations do you serve?

    Agnostic, Anglican, Baha'i Faith, Baptist, Buddhist, Catholic, Earth-Based, Episcopalian, Evangelical, Hindu, Islam, Jainism, Jewish, Lutheran, Methodist, Mormon, No Denomination, Orthodox Christian, Pagan, Presbyterian, Quaker, Shinto, Sikhism, Taoist, Unitarian

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